As always, make sure bdsm/kink play is safe, sane, and consensual. Never leave your sub alone during bdsm play. Prepare everything needed before restraining your sub so there’s no need to step away until after you’ve released him. When using rope or any tightly fitting cuffs, always periodically feel your sub’s hands/feet/balls (whatever is tied) to ensure they aren’t cold. Cold is a sign of circulation loss which needs to be addressed immediately by removing the restraints in that area before your sub gets hurt.

Specific to this week’s tutorial, make sure your sub is balanced on the stool and that it doesn’t tip over, especially when he’s tied/cuffed to it. Although it’s sturdy, anything is possible. Safety first! As always, be very careful when using power tools. Take the necessary precautions such as wearing safety glasses. Also, when using the dildo jack, be careful, adjust things slowly, and don’t use it on a sub unless you’re very familiar with his limits and have a pretty good idea of what he can handle. Again, it’s all fun and games until somebody loses their ability to walk straight! ;)

For the mouth-imapled predicament, it can be super hot...unless your sub isn't choking on a dildo and unable to breath. Don't push things TOO far. If you break your partner, you don't get a new one! ;)

This one gives new meaning to the words "Go fuck yourself!". ;) With this setup, you can actually make your sub do just that in order to free himself from a bondage predicament. Even better, you can make it as easy or as challenging as you want. Basically, you'll be putting your sub in a predicament that he'll be able to free himself from. The only problem is that the key that he needs in order to do so is out of his reach. Each time he slides up and down on a dildo, he brings the key just a little bit closer to being within his reach. But do you want him to fuck himself on that dildo 20 times? 50 times? Maybe 100-200 times? Any of these are possible. Just how sadistic of a Dom are you?

Prepping your bondage stool:

Expand your ratchet tie-down so you can easily access the bottom portion of it.

Using the ratchet tie-down as a guide (and preferrably a sub to sit on the stool so you can better judge the best location), mark a spot where you're going to slide a bolt through in order to secure the device to the seat of the stool. You'll want the strap winding on the ratchet facing toward the outside of the stool, and the ratchet handle just under your sub's dick/balls when he's sitting on the stool.

Drill a 1/4 inch hole in the spot you marked.

Set your ratchet down on the edge of the stool as shown below, then place a bolt through a washer, then through the bottom portion of the ratchet, then through the stool.

Depending on your setup (the angle of the stool, where you end up feeding the ratchet strap, etc.), to make things work more smoothly, you'll probably want to feed the straps through something so they don't bind up. I used a simple carabiner clip fixed underneath the stool where the ratchet was mounted. If you choose this method, just take a large carabiner clip, put the narrow end under the stool, then use a large washer and wing nut to secure both the carabiner and ratchet in place. Then feed your ratchet straps through the wider end of the carabiner clip to avoid having them bind up from being wound at an awkward angle.

Take the shorter end/strap, put it through the hole in your bondage stool, wind it around a leg, and secure it so it's out of the way. (Or any similar method will work, the key is to just secure it somehow so it's out of the way.)

Prepping a system to run the ratchet strap through:

There are many ways to do this, but I tried to show a method here that doesn't require a dungeon, a basement, or really anything special. You should be able to do this in any house, apartment, rental, etc., and it shouldn't damage walls or ceilings (just be careful to be sure).

Take a long piece of rope, or a thin rope ratchet hanger (which is what I used here, just make sure you can loop it over a door and close the door), and tie the loose rope end to a door knob outside the room you're doing this in.

Then run the thin rope up over the top of the door, and let the rest hang down the other side.

Use fairly loose rope or a similar method to create a loop that your larger ratchet tie-down strap can freely slide through. (Again, there are many ways to rig this, this is just one example.)

Next, I used another thin rope ratchet hanger hooked to the larger ratchet tie-down as my point to hold the key to the handcuffs I used. Use whatever you want, but the goal here is to use something that will hang over the door handle without easily sliding off it until it's pulled over the top of the door handle.

I ended up having to weight the end down a bit, so I just attached a heavy padlock. Clip the "escape" key to the end of this line.

You can start the key lower to the floor, or higher up. Just keep in mind that each click of the ratchet will only pull the key up around 1/4-1/2 inch. Your sub will need to go up and down on the dildo, a full stroke each way, to click the ratchet once or twice...and the key will need to go over the door handle in order for him to free himself. (So some quick math will tell you that if the key has to travel 20 inches, and each time your sub goes up and down on the dildo it moves the ratchet 1/2 inch, that means he will have to fuck the dildo using long up/down strokes around 40 times to free himself. If the key has to travel 40 inches, double that.)

Choose a Vac-u-Lock dildo and secure it in place on your dildo jack (see Part 3 if you haven't implemented that already). I highly recommend using a condom on the dildo for sanitary and easier clean-up purposes. Then lube up the dildo, and have your sub sit on it. (By the way, you can also do this one without the dildo, for subs not into ass play. It’s still a great bondage predicament and will give your sub quite a workout as he works toward escape.)

Handcuff his hands behind his back.

Put a collar on him, then tie a rope from the collar to the handle of the ratchet. Be sure to make it taut, as this is how he's going to be inching his way to freedom. If it's too loose, it won't work.

Cuff his feet to the lower eyebolts. You can chain or tie his cuffed hands to an eyebolt in the back of the stool. Just make sure he can still reach the point where the key will eventually fall, so he can free himself (if you're truly doing an escape challenge).

Use a quick release strap (or rope, or whatever works for you) to secure his waist to the bondage stool with enough slack so he can go up on the dildo a bit. You just don't want him being able to come completely off the dildo. If necessary, jack up the dildo so he's further impaled on it and escape from impalement is impossible until he fucks it long enough to get to the key.

At this point, you may want to make sure your sub is not blindfolded since it can be much hotter seeing the expression on his face when he notices how little the key moves every time he goes up and down on the dildo.

After fucking himself on the dildo for a while, eventually he'll be oh-so-close to getting the key to fall into place within his reach.

And finally, the key will fall within his reach.

Then he should be able to reach the key...

...and unlock the handcuffs. Now he can unclip the waist restraintand finally pull himself off the dildo.

Want to see a HOT video of one of my subs enduring the dildo jack escape challenge? Check out the full videos here: Part 1  Part 2, or you can see a preview videos here: Part 1  Part 2

This one is pretty simple if you've completed parts 1, 2, and 3 of this series. Just have your sub kneel behind your bondage stool with his head just over the hole and the dildo jack in place. Be sure to use a clean Vac-u-Lock dildo, one that isn't used for other purposes. Cuff your sub's hands to the bottom eyebolts on the bondage stool. Then put a collar on your sub, have him lean over and put his mouth over the dildo, and tie or chain the collar to an eyebolt on the stool, opposite the side his body is on. Make the rope/chain short enough so he can't pull off of the dildo.

Then since you have the convenience and versatility of the dildo jack, you could crank the dildo up a little higher. Be careful when doing this and make sure your sub isn't gagging on the dildo. But you should be able to make him take it a little deeper in most cases, and watch as he tries to pull his head up, until he can't pull it up anymore. Then watch his submissive look as he begs you with his eyes not to crank it up anymore. ;)

This one is even easier. Just cuff your sub to the bondage stool however you want him. Feet cuffed to the lower eyebolts. Hands cuffed behind. Maybe even add some thumbcuffs, and how about a weight hanging from his balls?

Then clamp an adjustable wand holder to one of the square legs on the bondage stool (if you're using the stool and adjustable wand holder recommended in this series, everything fits perfectly). Now you can angle a vibrating wand however you want...to just tease his cock a bit, maybe vibrating between his cock and balls, or use some rope to make sure he can't pull his dick/balls away from it.

Or maybe go full intensity on the head of his dick.

Then watch him squirm and try to pull away.

Next week: ZAP! WHAM! BZZZ! An old comic book, or an e-stim accessories review? On this blog, probably the latter, complete with reviews from Gboy.