As always, make sure bdsm/kink play is safe, sane, and consensual. Never leave your sub alone during bdsm play. Prepare everything needed before restraining your sub so there’s no need to step away until after you’ve released him. When using rope or any tightly fitting cuffs, always periodically feel your sub’s hands/feet/balls (whatever is tied) to ensure they aren’t cold. Cold is a sign of circulation loss which needs to be addressed immediately by removing the restraints in that area before your sub gets hurt. With e-stim play, it’s important to know your sub and what he can handle BEFORE engaging in this type of play with a sub who is restrained, and especially if he’s gagged. Make sure he has a safe word, and a sound/hand signal equivalent if he’s gagged.

With a sound activated e-stim box:

Restrain your sub in your favorite position. Hang something near him that can easily make noise when moved, such as wind chimes. (You can also make your own version of this in a few different ways. Try taking a few lids to pots and pans, tying string around the handles, and hanging them fairly close to each other. Or do the same type of thing with a few old coffee mugs.) Then setup an oscillating fan nearby so it blows on your homemade wind chimes when it reaches a certain point. After setting up your sound activated e-stim power box and accessories on your sub, turn it on at a sensitivity and level that you know your sub can handle, but won’t allow him to fall asleep either. Kick back and enjoy the show. Every time the fan blows on your homemade wind chimes, his cock/ass/feet/inner thighs/wherever you have e-stim hooked up will feel it. He should be warned that moaning, groaning, cussing, etc. will only make his predicament worse. Be sure he has a safe signal though just in case it become way too much for him, such as holding up a certain # of fingers on a certain hand.

Restrain your sub in a way that only allows him to move one hand in a limited area. Setup the sound activated power box and accessories on your sub. Then put a laptop or tablet in front of him and make him play a game that includes sounds for mistakes or messing up in some way. You can find many examples of these here. He doesn’t get out until he completes x # of games, or whatever you choose. Once you check some of these out and get the idea, I’m sure you’ll be able to come up with your own similar ideas.

Try an e-stim motivated race against the clock, previously posted in detail here.

With a motion activated e-stim box:

Restrain your sub in a position that makes it difficult to remain still (standing bondage with one foot on the floor and one leg bent with that foot tied to his balls, or stand him up/lay him down on an upside down office mat so he'll want to adjust as the rubber spikes dig in more over time, etc.). Use bondage tape or something similar to secure the motion activated e-stim power box to him (usually a leg works well, just make sure it's secured to a part of him that he is likely to want to move). Attach your e-stim accessories (cock loops around dick, maybe an e-stim plug in his ass, whatever you want). Turn the power box on and watch the show as he tries to remain still, knowing that he will pay the price for any sudden movements.

With a remote e-stim box:

If your sub has been misbehaving or has an attitude in need of correction, try using a remote e-stim box on him. Get him restrained in your favorite position, and get the power box strapped to him with some bondage tape or something similar that will hold it. Attach your favorite e-stim accessories to his dick/balls, ass, inner thighs, wherever. Tell him he is to repeat continuously, out loud, "I am your submissive boy, Sir. I am sorry for misbehaving, Sir. It will not happen again, Sir." or something similar/equally submissive. Then go about your business on the other side of the room or in the general area. Watch TV, a movie, have fun, and make sure he knows that you're having fun while he is being punished. Just make sure you’re within a distance where you can clearly hear him. If at any point you don't hear him repeating the phrase you gave him, just hit a button on your remote for some immediate e-stim behavior correction.

Here's an idea you can use with any e-stim box:

Interrogation (great for switch couples or play buddies):

1. Decide on who will be the sub for an interrogation.
2. Agree on reasonable limits such as the maximum strength/intensity allowed on your e-stim box. With e-stim, it's also best to keep it below the heart (dick/balls, thighs, just below the waist, feet, etc.).
3. Agree on a time limit for the interrogation.
4. Have the sub lock a small amount of money in a combination lockbox or a piece of paper with a secret written on it that he'd prefer the Dom doesn't know (or just lock an empty lockbox), after resetting the combo to one that only he knows.
5. The Dom then interrogates the sub to make him "talk" and give up the combo. He can use whatever e-stim attachments he has available and on any part of the body that was previously agreed upon, in whatever lengths of time or intensities desired, providing limits are respected. If the Dom successfully gets the combo out of the sub within the time limit, the Dom wins. If the sub withstands the interrogation until the time limit is reached, the sub wins. Loser sucks the winner off, or becomes the permanent bottom in the relationship for a week, or whatever is decided before you start the game.

Next week: Has your boy been lazy lately? Here's a few forced workouts to motivate him.